Self-Satisfaction Is Key


Diets don’t work—healthy lifelong habits are what will get you weight loss, weight maintenance, and good health. Celebrate by dropping the diet and picking up a few healthy habits instead.

Dieting is harmful to your self-esteem. You diet because you view yourself as overweight. Then the punishment, deprivation, restricting calories, and avoiding happy hour starts. But if you are always hungry or feel deprived and view yourself as “fat,” then packing on the pounds is easy.

So what exactly is a “healthy” weight? Uncontrollable elements that affect weight are height, bone density, body type (endomorph, mesomorph, ectomorph), and body composition  (the innate ratio of body muscle to fat). Muscle & Strength explains the different body types (shown below) and variations in exercise routine for body type.

If you are a mesomorph and have more muscles than an ectomorph, you may weigh more but are not overweight. And while most female models are ectomorphs, many women aren’t—yet they set weight goals based on a cover girl’s body frame. This is unrealistic. A realistic weight goal is one that is unique for each individual and attainable. If you are working out at the gym and you look and feel good, is it really important to lose those last few pounds? After all, weight, like age, is just a number.

Setting a weight goal and sticking to a set number of calories does not take first priority. For example, if you are part of the “clean your plate club” and are having difficulty losing weight, instead of concentrating on counting calories, use a smaller plate. You will eat the same food you always enjoy, finish the food on your plate, and lose weight. A simple change makes weight loss easy.

Positive body image and establishing a healthy relationship with food is what counts and can help you reach weight goals. Stanford University School of Medicine found that 63 percent of participants in a study who had a positive body image were more successful at losing and maintaining weight for a year compared to a 26 percent success rate for those who were discontent with their bodies.

Why not hide your scale, do not peek at a height and weight chart, and avoid body mass index (BMI) calculations. Love yourself, love your body. Change your thinking and focus on these goals:

  • Accept your weight and embrace who you are.
  • Set realistic health guidelines for yourself.
  • Focus on positive lifestyle changes.
  • Appreciate yourself. Create positive relationships with family, friends, and food.
  • Change your thoughts: Erase negative thoughts and begin positive self-talk: “I am beautiful.”
  • Enjoy your eating experience by eating a variety of foods. Do not diet or obsess on food, weight, or calories. Eat when hungry, stop when full.
  • Move your body. Enjoy a hobby or turn up the tunes and dance.
  • Relax. Take time out for yourself.

By Valerie Berkowitz, R.D.  This article was first published on Monday, 1/21/2013 at 12:49:42 PM,


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